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OUR Fourth Spiral together

STAR™ Feminine Full Expression

August 27-30, 2026

4-Day STAR™ Rituals, Teachings & Practices for Women and Feminine-Identifying babes. 

Living transmissions of feminine sacred sexuality, somatics, tantra, theatre, archetypes, art, ritual, in a sacred space of divine remembering.

COME DEEP DIVE INTO THE EXPRESSION OF THE SACRED, EROTIC FEMININE

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OUR Fourth Spiral together

STAR™ Feminine Full Expression

August 27-30, 2026

4-Day STAR™ Rituals, Teachings & Practices for Women and Feminine-Identifying babes. 

Living transmissions of feminine sacred sexuality, somatics, tantra, theatre, archetypes, art, ritual, in a sacred space of divine remembering.

COME DEEP DIVE INTO THE EXPRESSION OF THE SACRED, EROTIC FEMININE

Join super early bird price waitlist 💫

Unleash your sexual magic, Unleash yourself

For the woman who wants more out of this life. You know you have more to give, to express, to create, to feel.

If you look around at this wild world and think, WTF… how do I show up? How do I do this not solo but in relation? How do I do this in pleasure? How do I work with my nervous system to find choice, creation, and power? How do I orient toward beauty and aliveness in this society? You’re ready.

If you are feeling disconnected from who you dream to be, who you want to be, and in your heart know you can be, STAR™ is for you.

Live a more turned-on, passionate life
Call in divine dreams & relationships
Have sex that’s healing
Make your art
Embody your truth

Become a part of the Pleasure Revolution

Each of us has the deepest of sexual magic, a direct connection to the divine feminine, and an inner pleasure goddess just waiting for you to remember her. Society has, for millennia, separated us from our sacred full feminine expression and our divine right of pleasure.

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Dive Deep Into the Full Expression of the Feminine

This is for women and feminine beings who feel fear around their sexual shadow and want a conscious, supportive and playful space to explore the power of their sexuality.

For those who long for a spiritual, nervous system aware, grounded and living lineage that is big enough to hold all of you.

This is a Temple that honors the body as holy, wholeness as inherent, and sexuality as sacred.

This is a path that does not shame your rage, your body, your desires, your grief, your voice, your art, or your shine.

This is for you if:

You feel the weight of patriarchy and know there’s another way

You’re tired of doing your spiritual work alone

You cycle through numbness, shutdown, and anxiety, and you desire freedom, expansion, and aliveness

You feel bored or overwhelmed with your life, yet you know you have big gifts to share

You crave more of the mystical and spiritual in every day life 

You want to share more of your voice, your heart, your love while your alive at this time on the planet

You have wild fantasies and big dreams

You want to be seen in your expression, your art, your truth, and your multidimensionality

You want to show up more fully as yourself in your facilitation, your business, your coaching, your relationships, your family, your life

You want practices that interrupt the patterns you feel stuck in

You’re ready to explore ritual, devotion, creativity, pleasure, and play as a new way forward

I’m CaraLilly Sasso, founder of STAR™

I’m a wild woman and a soft girlie, a woman alive with passion who once lived life only half in. In my 20’s & 30’s I found myself numb, lost, voiceless, shaped by others’ expectations, and held back by fear. Through a lifetime of spiritual seeking, and 10 years with powerful women teachers and tantric lineage, I learned how to listen to my own heart, trust my wisdom, claim my sexual and personal sovereignty, and move with grace through the mystery. I learned to turn it all into art, as alchemy, as devotion, as a gift to life.

Through working with my sexual shadows and using pleasure practices, I rewrote limiting stories and found a deep sense of wholeness in cultivating integrated, sovereign, playful and MAGICAL! life force energy. I believe this energy is one of the most powerful we have and a gift to body, soul, and spirit.

Since walking this path and studying tantra and pleasure-based sex education, I’ve lived a life I once only dreamed of;  traveling, creating, writing, performing, hosting wild rituals, and building deep friendships and love.

I know the life you desire, the love you desire, the creativity you desire, the community you desire, the business you desire is available to you babe, and STAR™ will help you move toward your soul’s song. 

So…WTF is STAR?

STAR™ is a body of practices I’ve collected and refined over the last 10 years, practices that brought me back to true myself.

STAR™ is also an expanding community of amazing teachers and practitioners that bring lineage and practices. We’re sharing the teachings that have supported our dreams, expression, desires, spirituality, and sexuality throughout our lives.

STAR™ is a feminine wisdom share with real practices we do together. We don’t’ just talk to the mind, we dance it, write it, breathe it, sing it, act it together. STAR™ is lived, embodied, and experienced in community.

This is an accumulation of teachings from our mentors, our own journeys, STAR™ practices, and ancient tantric lineage.

This is a living lineage of love, pulsing with feminine sovereignty, expression, and Shakti creative energy.

I’ve been walking this path for a decade, and these practices have held me through all of it. You may not love every practice the way we do, but I can promise, some of them will leave you moved deeply and changed forever. This is a path of coming back home to the divine expression of you.

What’s Included in STAR?

Dorm style accommodations and 8 freshly made Ayurvedic meals (Private rooms are available for an upgrade price) PLUS…

3 Afternoons of Sacred Sexuality Practice

Stimulate your senses with practices that are designed to get you in touch with your sexuality. Find your turn on, find yourself!

4 Evenings of
Deep Ritual

Drop in to potent rituals rooted in Tantra for the liberation of your Feminine Erotic Heart™. Embrace your edges with energetic practices to explore the sacred & profane.

1 Community of Powerful Women

Gather with like-minded women who want to embody their Holy Eros, live an orgasmic life, & return to the goddess within.

✨ STAR Practices & Rituals ✨

Orgasmic Breathwork
Sacred Theatre
Erotic Dance
Taoist Tantric Practices 
Neo & Classical Tantric Experiences
Goddess Reiki and Initiations
Shamanic Journeying
Cacao Ceremonies
Yoni & Womb Healing 
Polyvagal & Somatic Teachings
Sex Magic
8 Ayurvedic Meals

Testimonials

Hear From Our Former STAR Babes!

“I was drawn to STAR by a tug from within. Logically, I knew I liked the facilitators’ vibes and the description of the retreat aligned with my interests, goals, and inner work. But there was something deeper calling me to participate.” 
STAR 2023 Participant
“We fit so much into a relatively short period of time, but every exercise, meditation, and project was so valuable that I understand why they all had to be included.” 
STAR 2024 Participant
“I chose to attend STAR to get out of my comfort zone and to heighten my spirituality. I loved meeting the amazing, beautiful souls that attended with me and the great food! I love that the whole weekend pushed me to really dig deep emotionally.”
STAR 2024 Participant
“Because of STAR I became highly aware of my current state of happiness and also learned some methods to retain that bliss. I believe if you join STAR you will make lasting connections to yourself and others.“
STAR 2023 Participant
“STAR is clearly designed with so much love and expertise and attention. There will be moments where you are challenged, but the facilitators are big on consent and you can always take things at your pace. Go in with an open mind and heart and you will leave so full.” 
STAR 2024 Participant
“At first, I was nervous because I didn’t know anyone. But CaraLilly and Ksandra did a wonderful job easing us into the retreat on the first night and creating a sacred, safe container. By the time we went home, I felt like I was saying goodbye to a group of people I had known for years.”
STAR 2023 Participant
“Join STAR if you are looking to revive your soul and reconnect with your authentic self this is the place that welcomes you with open arms and loving conscious awareness.” 
STAR 2025 Participant
“Ksandra is a beautiful soul, whose depth and guidance is like that of a grandmother, she is able to see YOU beyond the you and guide you back to wholeness.”
STAR 2025 Participant
“CaraLilly is absolutely phenomenal, the way she is able to flawlessly guide and connect to the hearts of those in her presence and reconnect them with their joy is a true gift.”
STAR 2025 Participant
“The workshops are amazing! Getting to just be myself and be loved unconditionally is more medicine to me than anything and it’s like home base to hit a reset button..“
STAR 2025 Participant
“Something that changed for me is I now have a deep felt sense of community that I never thought I would have in this lifetime.”
STAR 2025 Participant

Meet the STAR Team

Yes, we are THOSE women.
Women who laugh boldly,
Dance without reservation,
And express our rage and our joy freely.
We are also conduits and priestesses of sexual healing and remembrance.

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I’m CaraLilly
Priestess of The Wild Love Temple

I’ve studied pleasure-based sex ed, sexological body work, conscious kink, Neo & Classical Tantra, earth based goddess traditions and somatic sex coaching for 10 years. In 2016 I realized there had to be more to sex, love and relationships. I was tired of faking orgasms and having my boundaries walked all over. I would always dread when partners asked me what I wanted or needed in sex. I was tired of my sexy being for everyone but me. I was longing for spirituality to be in every aspect of my life, especially sex! And then I found a whole world of spirituality outside of patriarchy, clarity, orgasmic magic, sacred sexuality and my voice!

Now I own my pleasure, heal my relationship with my pussy daily and I’m truly living the life my soul has always dreamed of.  It’s not a perfect life but it’s juicy and alive and I am the creatrix of it. I found the Goddess at ecstatic dance, in Shibari sessions, at pole dance class, in sex magic self pleasure practices, in taoist tantric breathwork and in sharing my art on stage, in community. And I know we all have access to this level of pleasure and aliveness on the other side of our fears and shadows.

I’ve seen my coaching clients bloom into the sovereign, seductress, priestess, warrior, artist, mother, sacred lover, divinely expressed soul they came to me desiring to be and it is my deepest honor to walk with them as they remember their power.

I’m Ksandra
of Hear Me Roehr


I am a Shamanic Tantric Energy Healer and Intuitive Life Coach. I work deeply with Mother Earth & Father Sky to guide individuals to connect with their Inner wisdom to let their Authentic Self ‘Roehr!’ About 13 years ago I got my first glimpse into remembering how to connect with my inner wisdom, how to connect with a bigger part of myself that I felt existed but had no way of putting words to it. In the years that followed I read books, attended workshops, received attunements and trainings to deepen my understanding and connection. I started holding space for others to go on this inner journey of self discovery, healing, and unconditional love.

What I have discovered along the way is that a profound level of self empowerment and radical self love and acceptance is accessible when we learn how to go inwards and cultivate a relationship with all aspects of our Self. When we learn how to communicate with this part of ourselves we are able to tap into the guidance, love, healing, etc that we so deeply desire. We learn how to stop seeking these things outside of ourselves and not only do we remember who we are but we start showing up in the world as the Authentic self. 

And this is why I do this! Both on a personal and professional level. I have fully dedicated myself to nurture, cultivate, evolve with, heal with, all aspects of me. I have learned how to love myself unconditionally, how to put myself first, how to accept all parts of me, how to hold space for all parts of me, how to keep my heart open, how to set boundaries and honor and express all my human emotions. I have also seen my clients go through the same evolution. I have seen them in despair, heart broken, lost, confused, hurt, etc. And I have had the honor of holding space as they went inward and transformed. It is not always perfect, fun, or easy and there will always a mixture of ‘good’ & ‘bad’ days but in the process we learn how to love ourselves.

Pricing

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Early Bird
(Until July 31st)

Does not include private room accommodation options.

$1,111

Apply to Get STARted

Regular Price

Does not include private room accommodation options.

$2,222

Apply to Get STARted

Early Bird

(until July 31st)
Does not include private room accommodation options.

$1,111

Apply to Get STARted

Regular Price


Does not include private room accommodation options.

$2,222

Apply to Get STARted
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